What to do when you’ve blown it
Darling, Who among us has not reached for it with heart, soul, blood, and guts, and ended up trounced, trammeled, and shattered? In this week’s Ask Mama, we meet Sister Goddess Judi on life’s ledge,...
View ArticleMy deepest fear.
Think with me for a sec. What scares you the most? Falling in love? Never falling in love? Raising your kid the right way? Or the wrong way? Taking that radical step to get your voice out there in the...
View ArticleThe Biggest Mistake Women Make with Food (video w/Kris Carr)
Sister, Think Hurricane Sandy is the only powerhouse female around? I’ve got Kris Carr in the house! And in this week’s Ask Mama, I am flipping the switch and yo’ Mama is asking the Q’s. I recently...
View ArticleCat food and no career
Sister, What a week! Last Monday night, Hurricane Sandy knocked our power out in the Lower East Side of Manhattan, and my daughter and I spent five cold, dark days getting close with our neighbors, as...
View ArticleThanksgiving Recipe for Rapture
Darlings, I don’t know about you, but I cannot remember a more dramatic fall season. Seriously. Hurricanes, elections, war, violence, colliding with unprecedented outpourings of support and activism....
View ArticleHmm…would I rather date? Or clean toilets?
Darling, The world of relationships is never easy to navigate. Every time a woman puts on her lip gloss and heels and hits a bar, a club, a restaurant, a library, an online dating site—with the hope of...
View ArticleI know you want me.
Darling, It is not easy being The Pleasure Queen, now, is it? You all know as well as I do, being that all of us are Pleasure Queens of our own little universes. It’s a lot of pressure to pull ‘Queen’...
View ArticleI have wanted this for you for a long time (new video)
Sister, I love presents. Getting them is cool, but mostly I love giving them. I love that delicious feeling of anticipation when I have found the exact perfect thing for someone, remembered to tuck it...
View ArticleMy heartfelt gratitude to you this Christmas
Sister, This holiday season has kicked up a festival of emotions inside me. I am so grateful to be sharing Christmas with my mom, her fiancé and his family, and my daughter. I am also feeling a little...
View ArticleWhat’s tugging on your soul today?
Darling, Welcome to this brand new year, and all the opportunity it holds for unparalleled beauty, intimacy, seduction, outrage, intrigue, love, provocation, passion, adventure and mischief in your...
View Article“I know you want me”? Are you kidding?
Darling, Do the words “I know you want me” fall flat on your ears? Like a thud. Clunk. Or even a halting screech? If so, you’re not alone: Dear Mama, What were you thinking?! I absolutely love you and...
View ArticlePerfect on the outside, dying on the inside
Darling, It was just another cold December morning. I woke up, got the kid on the bus, went to spin class, showered, dressed. I settled in with a gigantic cup of English breakfast tea, in my God Save...
View ArticleHow to get a guy to love you
Darling, You did it. You got the job you deserved. You slogged through and got the divorce you needed. The kids are handled and thriving. You make friends every time you turn around. But why oh why...
View Article2 days left ’til Intro Day
Darling, Just a quick heads up… Only two days left ’til my Intro class: I know you want me. I have something very special in store… First, I’m gonna hook you up to your power source and give you the...
View ArticleFor the beautiful girl in you (interview with Dr. Christiane Northrup)
Darling, This week’s Ask Mama is very special… I don’t normally do this, but today I’m asking the questions. I’m talking to the woman who inspired me and countless other women to take control of our...
View ArticleThe five men that have everyone talking
Darling, So, the Saturday before last I had the most incredible, beautiful, amazing Intro event of my life. Over 300 women showed up at our new Mastery venue, the French Institute, and cut loose. New...
View ArticleYou overwhelmed with biz ideas? Watch this.
Darling, Do you ever get overwhelmed with too many passions and business ideas? Ever wonder what you should be doing first, second, third, and so on? Me too. That’s good news, though, because I...
View ArticleWill you be my date this Valentine’s Day?
Darling, This Valentine’s Day… Sister Goddesses are rising. The Pleasure Revolution is joining forces with Eve Ensler’s global activist movement, V-Day, for its 15th anniversary and most ambitious...
View ArticleHow to get there from here
Darling, First, it was Portland on Sunday: A large pink ball of fire blazed through the NIA studios, igniting 200 women and their 8,000 nerve endings, hosted by Debbie Rosas. Last night was another...
View ArticleThe worst news you could ever hear
Darling, That body of yours? Yeah, her. She has so much to say. But do we listen? She takes so much heat from us. So much criticism. Endless demands. And sometimes—yes, sometimes—she turns up the...
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